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You might have "met her on a online dating site" but in reality you haven't yet met her. You have communicated with her, but until you meet, face to face, you have not really met.
You must understand, pictures, phone calls, IM, MSN, none of it matters until you meet FACE TO FACE IN PERSON.
Matt's Method - TIP #18
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Weekend or Weekday Date?
Setting Up the FIRST Date
OK, you've done everything right and now it's time to set up a date.
A Night Date -- Which Day of the Week?
Should you go for a weekend or week day?
On your first date, the one you set up as a 'date', if it's going to be at night it should be during the week. That means Monday-Thursday. Or, if you want to expand that, a Friday, Saturday or Sunday afternoon.
First, you're pretty popular and pretty busy, and even if that isn't true, that's the conclusion you want her to make.
You've got stuff going on during the weekend. So that first date will set the stage for the second date and will also put you in control. Most guys will make a date for a Friday or Saturday night because they're too happy to be even going on a date.
I don't care if you've never been out on a date in your life. I don't care if you've never even arranged to have a cup of coffee with a woman, don't get so excited that you seem weak and out of control.
Simply make the date for a weeknight.
"Would you like to meet for a drink on Wednesday, after work?"
How to End the First Date
And when you have that date - be sure you are the one who ends it.
Even if everything is going your way and she's all over you-if you like her and want to stay in control-you decide when the date is over.
"I'm having a great time, but I'm afraid I'm going to have to put this on hold until we get together again."
Her Interest Level
If she says, "When will that be?" or "I hope that's soon", she has VERY high interest in YOU. And that's of course what you want.
I must admit, if you're crazy about this woman, what I've just suggested is very, very hard to do. And if you have low esteem or low confidence it's virtually impossible.
If you really don't care about a future with her and she wants to go to your place or wants you to come to hers, go for it.
But realize when you do that you are just like every other guy she's ever met and she knows it.
And that puts her in control.
The Weekend Date
If you've had a two or three successful dates with this woman during the week and you still want to pursue her and be in control, then it's time to plan a weekend date.
Remember your goals here are to:
Be a mystery,
Set yourself apart from the other dudes who are predictable and stupid
Be a challenge while maintaining control and displaying confidence.