Q. I'm not interested in getting married, I just want to play the field. But the women I
meet only want to play games. Can Matt's Method help me?
A. Absolutely! You will learn how to separate the 'game-players' from the woman
who can provide what you're looking for. You will be able to take control and keep
Q. My brother dates a lot of women but always seems to get
dumped after they take him for a ride. Can Matt's Method
help him make better choices?
A. Yes. Not only will it help him make better choices, it will
teach him how to find - and select - better women.
Dating Advice -- Matt's Message
Dating & Mating Secrets ...
About the NEW Section -- "Matt's Message"
As I'm traveling around the country and the world I get these little "brain bursts" of information that might be helpful in stimulating your own thinking when it comes to having the success with women you want. So in addition to my weekly tips, check the FAQ page and this Matt's Message page often.
Who Has the Best Dating Advice?
Let's face it, there are a lot of places to get dating advice and the reason is very simple. Guys need advice!! And in most cases they're willing to pay for it. But you don't have to pay for it here. It's free.
Is it better because it's free? You be the judge.
The difference between my dating advice and others is quite simple: I have lived it. I have experienced it. And my method is based on the success I have had as a single dating guy over a 25-year period.
Over that time I dated hundreds of women and scored with hundreds, if you get my meaning. I brought women to tears when I broke up with them. It wasn't because I was especially good looking, or tall, or rich, or because I showered them with gifts. None of that.
They cried because they wanted me in their life and I was leaving. I was in control and they weren't. I was a challenge to them and they were happy when we were together. Although I must admit, there were a few women who I cried over when they dumped me. Those were the times I really learned what I had done wrong. And those are the lessons I share with you here.
Is my advice better than anyone else's? You have to judge that for yourself. I suggest you find someone whose advice and method works for you and follow that path. If it's me, great. If not, good luck. One thing for sure, there is a lot of good–and bad –advice out there, you just have to find what works for you, and decide what you're willing to pay for it.
And why is my advice free? Simple. I don't need the money.
Live in the NOW
I was reminded recently of an old phrase: Yesterday is History, tomorrow is a Mystery, today is a gift, that's why it's called The Present.
You can only operate in the present. You can only deal with the women in your life in the present. The past is dead. Those mistakes have been made and there's nothing you can do about what's been done.
You can't put the toothpaste back in the tube.
But you CAN operate in a way that will make a better future in your dating and love life. It starts with doing the things that will yield the results you want. More about how to cause the results you want in a later message.
Things to never ask a woman you've just met:
There are certain things you should never say to a woman you meet. You're meeting her and getting signals that her Interest Level is high.
Do not say, "Do you have a boyfriend?", or "Are you going with anybody?"
Because she may be involved with someone, but unhappy and looking for a replacement. Maybe you are that lucky guy.
If you ask about a boyfriend you may give her a case of the "guilties" and ruin your chances. If you ask about a boyfriend you are helping her turn you down.
Let's face it, if she does have a boyfriend–and that's important to her, she will tell you. You won't have to ask.
This message is about being too eager when you meet a woman you like.
And it's in the form of a joke someone sent me.
A man met a beautiful woman and decided he wanted to marry her right away.
She said, 'But we don't know anything about each other.'
He said, 'That's all right, we'll learn about each other as we go along.'
So she consented, they were married, and off they went on a honeymoon at a very nice resort.
One morning they were lying by the pool, when he got up off of his towel, climbed up to the 10 meter board and did a two and a half tuck, followed by three rotations in the pike position, at which point he straightened out and cut the water like a knife.
After a few more demonstrations, he came back and lay down on the towel.
She said, 'That was incredible!'
He said, 'I used to be an Olympic diving champion. You see, I told you we'd learn more about each other as we went along.'
So she got up, jumped in the pool and started doing lengths.
After seventy -five lengths she climbed out of the pool, lay down on her towel and was hardly out of breath.
He said, 'That was incredible! Were you an Olympic endurance swimmer?'
'No,' she said, 'I was a prostitute in Memphis but I worked both sides of the Mississippi.
Understanding the numbers game and the 30 factor
On average, asking 30 women for their private phone numbers will result in getting 10 numbers.
Getting 10 phone numbers will result in only five dates.
The other five will never answer or will make an excuse to not go out with you, or will make–and then break a date.
Out of the remaining five, two will have below 49% interest. This leaves only three candidates with 50% or higher interest in you.