Fastest way to gauge her interest:
Ask for her phone number.
way you explain things has
shown me how the mistakes I made in the past
got me nowhere with women. I'm really getting
somewhere with the opposite sex now and it feels
very very good. I wish there were more nights
in a week. You need to add another tip
called "how to handle all the women
who want to date you"." KB - Denver
On the road of love you are either driving, riding, or walking.
Where do you want to be?
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How to identify her level of interest
You've met and now it's time to findoutifshe's really interested in you.
Back in the day, before cell phones, instant messaging, text messaging and caller ID, it was much easier. Then I would simply ask her for her home phone number.
"What is your home phone number?"
If she said, "Do you have a pen?" Or simply blurted out her number, it meant I had hit a home run and she was expressing her interest in me in the best way possible.
Today things are different and a little more complicated, but that can also work in your favor.
You've passed the physical attraction test and she is talking to you. And by the way, be sure she is doing more talking than you. (More about that in a future tip)
Before you spend too long conversing, you say "What is your private phone number–the number you will answer when I call?"
Expressing this kind of confidence may catch her off guard.
She may respond by giving you her voicemail number, her email address, or her work number. But you, filled with confidence and in control of the situation must be clear before you write the number down, or enter it into your cell phone.
You must respond with: "I don't want to take this number unless I know you will answer when I call."
If she assures you that she will it's definitely a good sign. Although at this point she can tell you anything, hopefully she's being honest.
That's the simple, most direct and best way to tell if this woman you are interested in is interested in you.
Could you be more direct? Sure.
You could say, "Hey, how would you like to go to my place, spend the night and stay for breakfast?"
And that might work. I've got a great story about one of my similar experiences in a later tip. But that one-night stand action is just that: one night. If you're looking to control the situation and the relationship for the next month, year, or lifetime it's probably not going start with a one-night stand.
Let's face it, a woman can get laid any time she wants. She can show up, wait for some guy to hit on her and go home with him. Simple. And if she's drunk enough and desperate enough, even a really ugly no-class guy can score. Do you want to be that guy or the guy who is in control of the situation and himself? She can ‘smell' the difference. Believe me, she'll respond completely differently if she senses you're not just out for sex.
Let's recap. You ask for the private number that she will answer when you call. Accept no substitutes.
If she says "Why do you want it?", she's playing with you and not interested.
If she says, "Give me your number and I'll call you." it probably means she's not very interested.
If you go for that and give her your number, I'm betting she'll never call.
She will have taken control from you. So don't do it.
If she gives you her number, she's interested and that's the purpose of the question, to gauge her interest.
If she gives you the number and asks "When will you call?" it means very high interest.
And if she does ask that, your best answer is, "I'll call." Then leave.
You're confident, in control, and presenting yourself as a challenge. That's a winning combination with women of all ages.
Your total investment from the time you meet until you ask for her private number and make your exit should be no more than 15-20 minutes.
Whatever you do, after you get that number, do not call her before three days have passed!
Matt's Method - TIP #4
You'll know if she's interested when you ask for the phone number ...