You are here because one of these applies to you. Which one is it?
You've been dumped.
Your wife divorced you.
You're tired of
women who lie.
You're tired of women who are takers and not givers.
You're looking for the woman of your dreams.
You want to know how to find a great woman.
You want to date more
women - more often.
You want to meet your perfect woman and get married.
You've spent too much money on bad dates.
She won't return your call.
You're getting back to the dating scene
and you don't know where to start.
You don't want to get burned again.
You've lost your confidence.
You feel the dating world is a jungle.
She broke your heart.
You want to change
your luck with women.
All very good reasons to be here and, believe it or not, Matt's Method can solve EVERY ONE of those problems
Matt's Method - TIP #13
Dating & Mating Secrets ...
Part 2 Think Before You Speak She has the Memory of an Elephant
Every time you open your mouth she memorizes each thing you say.
For example, over the course of the evening you asked her twice what college she went to.
Now she thinks you're insincere because you're a "bad listener."
And she feels insulted because you couldn't remember Fresno State. That's a Big Negative. Her Interest in you just dropped 10 points.
On the first date you talked about your 'ex.'
Now she knows you'll talk about her behind her back, even though she is the one who asked about your 'ex.' You just lost another 10 points.
Four or five of these faux pas and her Interest Level is below 50%. You are history.
Remember what you read in Tip #12? What you can say to your best buddy, you cannot necessarily say to HER. She hears things differently.
What you may think is "just conversation", she may hear a BIG NEGATIVE.
Think about this logically: Can she get turned on by anything negative? Can you?
Now don't feel too guilty if you've made those two mistakes; forgetting her answer to a question or talking about your 'ex'. Every guy does it. Until they understand-and correctly practice-Matt's Method.
First, remember everyone likes positive people.
Second, only your mother will love you unconditionally.
Whoever this woman is that you want for your own it's a pretty sure bet she does not want to be your mother. In fact, throughout the interviews I've done with women they've said: "When I met him he was a man, now he's like a little boy. I don't want to be his mommy."
If her Interest Level is higher than yours, she will look up to you and respect you. Don't do something that may diminish or reduce that respect.
And remember, SHE remembers EVERYTHING! I don't know how they do it, but women remember the most random, obscure things that a man does or says. But only if they have a high level of Interest in the man. So be prepared to do and say things you want her to remember that will move the relationship in the direction you want it to go.
The man with Confidence knows that negatives don't get him anywhere in a relationship.
There are many relationship coaches who say that baring your soul as soon as possible to a woman will somehow raise her Interest in you. But reality says it ain't necessarily so.
They say, "Show her how vulnerable you are so she will feel sorry for you and love you more."
Matt's Method says that only after her Interest Level has gone through the roof and she has first bared her soul, do you tell her more about yourself, but not before.
Keep an element of mystery.
As long as you don't do something to turn her off, she'll still be around.